tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558304934591756707.post1333192266896172687..comments2023-04-25T15:03:17.932-07:00Comments on Team Shelly: Waiting for the good news to sink in.Shelly Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14639896935659661013noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558304934591756707.post-53472114963635897972010-07-05T05:01:53.498-07:002010-07-05T05:01:53.498-07:00Shelly, you put into words that so many of us who ...Shelly, you put into words that so many of us who have been seriously ill or have had another cancer,feel. Or even if you haven't been sick, we ask this question. You have the gift to share your feelings with the rest of us who know and love you. Nelly PetrockAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558304934591756707.post-7545393076665173012010-06-28T13:44:30.408-07:002010-06-28T13:44:30.408-07:00Ditto to what Heidi said. From both a personal an...Ditto to what Heidi said. From both a personal and professional (hey, I am therapist!) POV, you sound like you're processing this all just fine, and you're reactions are normal. <br /><br />I'm ecstatic for you, by the way.<br />-Drewandrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05728811935537003224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558304934591756707.post-37578204539291037392010-06-28T11:59:24.135-07:002010-06-28T11:59:24.135-07:00You are not crazy. Everything you're feeling i...You are not crazy. Everything you're feeling is totally normal and valid and you shouldn't feel bad about your feelings.<br />Don't worry about making us feel better. It's not about us - it's about you.<br />You are normal. And you don't have to be strong all the time. And you don't have to be happy because we expect you to be.<br />Just be. <br /><br />You've been given permission by Heidi.Heidihoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406421365644020224noreply@blogger.com